Nick Ring Addresses the Gay Rumors...Sort Of.
I saw this article on OutSports, and I just had to throw my two cents in. There is one certainty after every episode of The Ultimate Fighter...the message boards will be filled with "Is he or isn't he" discussion over Nick Ring's sexuality. To be honest, the first time I saw him I also raised a brow, but I quickly realized this is just a guy supremely comfortable in his own sexuality. He realizes that his chosen path involves rolling around on the ground with other dudes, and he embraces it. All of his more "questionable" moments have come as a direct result of someone questioning his sexuality, such as the tooth brushing incident with Yager and McCray from episode 3 after they accused him of being gay for getting a rubdown from Charles Blanchard.
Well, Ring addressed the rumors, sort of, on his blog for Heavy:
So here I am, it’s late and I am now happy and feeling good about my massage. My lower back is feeling good and it is definitely thanking me and I go to the washroom to brush my teeth and get ready for bed and McCray and Yager decide it is time for them gang up on me and "have a talk".
From their bedroom, McCray loudly asks me a loaded question that goes a little bit like "Hey Ring, Why would you get a massage from a dude at 3 AM?" I knew exactly where he was trying to go with this one so I thought fuck it – I’ll play, so I answered "because I’m a big queer".
They started laughing hard in disbelief at my remark, and I walked into their room and leaned my shoulder up against the doorway while I flossed my teeth.
I knew that my reply would likely take most of the wind out of their sails but being the couple of Neanderthals they are, they relented by saying that I’m standing gay and tried telling me that I need to change my posture blah blah blah. I just thought it was funny so just poured it on more until they dropped it…
I didn’t realize how funny that would actually look on camera, but I was just kind of doing my thang. Me and my friends always joke around like this and I guess some people aren’t used to that, I got labelled a queer in the house pretty fast due to some of the shit that comes out of my mouth hahaha. I wasn’t really too bothered by it though, I know who I am and my friends back home know me and will just laugh about it anyway.
All I can say is that some people look intimidating and some don’t and I guess I fall into the second category. But then again, I don’t spend a lot of time trying to look hardcore like a lot of MMA fighters, I been doing this long enough to realize that there are two types of guys out there. There are the guys who act tough and then there are guys who are tough. Acting tough and being tough are two completely different things and when I got into the house it didn’t take me to long to figure out who was going to be tough and who was just posing.
It seems to me that a guy who is so forthcoming with the jokes to make the homophobes nervous would have no problems admitting to actually being a homosexual, but perhaps I'm wrong? Thoughts? (Keep it CLEAN!)
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I don't watch TUF so I can't comment on how he comes across
But I am pretty sure there’s a few closet cases in the UFC already, and some big names at that. I’ve been around gay folks my whole life, and my -dar is pretty reliable. Add to that that I’m a politics junkie and have seen the ‘doth protest too much’ crowd get found out more times than I can count and well…
On a semi-related note, Snowden’s BE fanpost about broadening the appeal of MMA by reducing the dumbshit machoist trappings is really good and spawning a lot of good comments. I expect you guys have seen that already, though.
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by some schmuck in texas on May 7, 2010 5:18 PM EDT reply actions
i agree.....
i am not gay, but i am comfortable enough to make comments that people would construe that i am gay, i am comfortable enough to cuddle, kiss and sleep with a gay man, but i am not gay, he is, and if you don’t make eye contact, then it still isn’t gay, ask my girlfriend, cos she says it all the time when she is filming me……..lol..
someone needs to put up the youtube video of jean claude van damme winking at fedor
i saw it about na week ago and it’s very funny. they were very close to each other. it was like their greeting.
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by wolfmanshowlforever on May 8, 2010 2:30 PM EDT up reply actions
LOL, my TUF soul-sista and I were having this precise conversation just the other night!
And I’m rather ambivalent about the subject. Personally, I’d like to see an openly gay fighter in the UFC…but then again, I’m a sucker for a little righteous rebellion…
As for whether or not Ring would come right out and put rumors about his sexuality to rest — I think you’re correct that any guy who’s comfortable enough to joke about it is probably secure enough to come right out and announce his sexual orientation, but on the other hand… a) he may be having too much fun with it to let it go that easily, and b) he might not want to deal with the backlash..
Incidentally, the UFC apparently has a rep as being…not a gay-friendly sports organization, exactly, but gay-tolerant I suppose. Dana White’s been quoted saying something to the effect of UFC doesn’t rightly care if a guy’s gay or not… Keep it up, Dana, I may be forced to rethink my opinion of you.. =P
I just watched this episode
And i thought, who’s gonna be talking about this in a non-douchy non-homophobic way. then I thought “Gal’s Guide! Of course!” And what do you know, it’s the first item on the front page!
I don’t know if he’s gay, but I’d sure like him to be. They’re definitely being purposefully ambiguous, if for any reason, because it makes for better television.
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by David St. Martin on May 8, 2010 2:46 AM EDT up reply actions
It would be pretty cool to have the first gay fighter come out on TUF
At first I thought this is who Tito was talking about (when he said he was shocked when he found out one of his fighter friends was gay), but Tito said he was shocked, so I figure it can’t possibly be him!
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in 1 more year their will be an ex ufc fighter on the cover of "the advocate".
I'm all about covering the spread and moneylines. I was building a house, I don't deserve this, deserves have nothing to do with it. Bang. "Unforgiven" I drink your milkshake. I drink it up! "There Will BE Blood". Hell is just a word, the reality is much much worse." Event Horizon". Now remember, when things look bad and it looks like you're not gonna make it, then you gotta get mean, I mean plumb, mad dog mean. cause if you lose your head and you give up then you neither live or win. That's just the way it is. "The Outlaw Josey Wales". "And that's just what these hustlers look for. They cruise from casino to casino looking for weak players the way lions look for weak antelope". Ace Rothstein, The Movie "Casino" 1995.
by wolfmanshowlforever on May 8, 2010 2:59 PM EDT up reply actions
By the way
I have conferred with the gays in San Francisco. The consensus is that he is hell of gay.
My motto,
As I live and learn,
is:
Dig and Be Dug
In Return.
-Langston Hughes (no relation to Matt)
A disclaimer, though
They all want to do him all sorts of different ways, so that may be swaying their opinion.
My motto,
As I live and learn,
is:
Dig and Be Dug
In Return.
-Langston Hughes (no relation to Matt)
ROFL
The girl I watch TUF with said “I find him really attractive, so he MUST be gay…”
that would be me
Yeah that was me, sad but true…if I think they’re attractive, its pretty safe to assume that they’re gay…its my curse.
Wandi!!
LOL! Awesome.. I’m so happy to see you posting finally =) (Can you guess who her favorite fighter is?)
eek no!
Actually, can I have Wanderlei Silva for a thousand Alex?
whoops
Although if you were basing that on the fact that men I’m attracted to tend to be gay, then GSP is a great guess. Wanderlei Silva is my one exception to that rule though…
I think he's just a secure dude with a great sense of humor and a willingness to make people uncomfortable.
His little finger-wag thing in his staredown was phenomenal.

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